They went on from there and passed through Galilee. He did
not want anyone to know it; for he was teaching his disciples, saying to them,
"The Son of Man is to be betrayed into human hands, and they will kill him,
and three days after being killed, he will rise again."
But
they did not understand what he was saying and were afraid to ask him. Then they came to Capernaum; and when
he was in the house he asked them, "What were you arguing about on the
way?" But they were silent,
for on the way they had argued with one another who was the greatest.
He sat down, called the twelve, and said to them,
"Whoever wants to be first must be last of all and servant of all." Then he took a little child and put it
among them; and taking it in his arms, he said to them, "Whoever welcomes one such child
in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who
sent me."
Let's begin with the end. If the biggest sacrifice Jesus ever asks of us to be more welcoming to the children in our churches, then we have it pretty easy. I actually find this episode rather humorous. After all, who are the ones who are being "childish", as we say?
Jesus begins by telling the disciples what his program is: suffer, die, and rise again. This is what Jesus - what God - is up to. But the disciples did not understand what he was talking about, and so did what every rational person does when confronted with a situation they don't understand: they ignore it and go on to something else. I am reminded of times when I have observed either myself or someone else in a similar predicament: you are in a situation where something is going on, or someone is talking, about something you don't understand. And then the greatest of instincts kicks in - the instinct to avoid looking stupid at all costs. This, I speculate, is even greater than the instinct to preserve life itself. I would venture that there are situations where we would rather end life, rather than face the embarrassment of admitting that we don't know something. That we don't understand what is going on.
I suspect this instinct is even particularly acute when it comes to Jesus, when it comes to God. We don't have a full grasp, or perhaps even any grasp, of what Jesus is doing. And so the instinct to avoid looking stupid takes over, and we avoid either asking the question, or doing something to help us find out (like praying and asking God himself). And this is the first thing we need to admit - we often just don't know or understand what God is up to. And so those first disciples, like thousands that have come after them, avoid Jesus, avoid God, and miss out on what Jesus is trying to tell them.
And then I think a second instinct kicks in, we might almost call it a law of nature. It goes kind of like this. If you are not going to talk about how great God is, you are going to talk about how great YOU are. If a group of disciples is not focused on what Jesus is doing, then they will naturally become preoccupied with what THEY are doing. And of course their must be a ranking of all the disciples - who is the greatest?
The way Jesus interrupts them is brilliant. He is about to teach them using children as an example. And so his approach to them is a pattern which every parent recognizes. You can hear the noise from across the city. There are sounds of bones breaking, walls caving in and glass shattering. you walk into the room. "What's going on?", you ask. And the reply is always the same: "Nothing." I have ascertained through research conducted over the course of a decade, with 4 constant Experimental Subjects (with an equal number of each gender) that when something is "going on", the reply is pretty much the same. Peter, James, John! What are you disciples talking about? "Ummm...Nuthin', Jesus..."
So Jesus calls them out on their desire to focus on themselves. On their desire to be great, to be in charge, to have things go their way. This is not how the kingdom of God works. The kingdom of God is not a place where I get to have my way all of the time. It's not even the place where you get to have your way. It's the place where God through Jesus gets to have His way. It's the place where our first question is not "what do I want", but rather "what does Jesus want".
And then Jesus takes a child and puts the child in the midst of them. Now this is where Jesus confronts their greatest fear: beyond looking stupid, beyond getting caught doing something dumb, I suspect that these disciples, like thousands that have come after them, have another paralyzing fear: the fear of children in their midst. The most unpredictable, uncontrollable element is thrown into the mix. Jesus took a little child and put the child among them. You can almost see them squirm.
It often goes unnoticed that there just happened to be a child close by. I suppose we read these stories thinking that Jesus just pulled a kid out of thin air. But it seems to me that Jesus had kids around him on a fairly regular basis. Children tend to show up in the Gospels at the most inconvenient times for the disciples. Look what Mark records in the next chapter:
And they were bringing children to him that he might
touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. But when Jesus saw it, he was
indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them,
for to such belongs the kingdom of God. Truly, I say to you, whoever does not
receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.” And he took them
in his arms and blessed them, laying his hands on them.
Then he took a little child and put it
among them; and taking it in his arms, he said to them, "Whoever welcomes one such child
in my name welcomes me, and whoever welcomes me welcomes not me but the one who
sent me." So a word for the church: do you want to welcome God? Then welcome Jesus. And if you want to welcome Jesus, then welcome the children in your midst. Too often the church fails to learn from the simple examples that Jesus gives us.
Which leaves me with a couple of questions which are still lingering in my mind... How comfortable are we with kids acting like kids in church? Or how comfortable are we with kids in church generally? Or how do we respond & provide for kids' desire and need to worship, to pray, to be present with Jesus?
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