Luke 14:25-33
Three times in this passage there is a kind of negative condition attached to being a disciple: in verses 26, 27 and 33. Jesus warns the crowds that one “cannot be” a disciples unless one: has a greater allegiance to Jesus than to family; has a greater desire for Jesus than for “life” (take up the cross); has a greater desire for Jesus than for possessions.
14:25 Now large crowds were traveling with him; and he turned and said to them, [26] "Whoever comes to me and does not hate father and mother, wife and children, brothers and sisters, yes, and even life itself, cannot be my disciple.
Jesus appears to want to thin out the crowds that have been following him. At least, what he says to them does not seem in keeping with the “how to win friends and influence people” school of thought. It might help us to look at a parallel passage from Matthew 10:37-38: “He who loves father and mother more than me is not worthy of me; and he who loves son or daughter more that me is not worthy of me; and he who does not take his cross and follow me is not worthy of me.”
There is the “comparative” way of looking at this passage: our love for Jesus must be greater than our love for family. Or, to put it more accurately in the context of being a disciple, our allegiance to Jesus must take priority over other competing allegiances, including those that come from family. Most of us rarely face such choices, or we think that God could not possibly put us in a situation in which we must choose between allegiance to family (families are good things, after all) and allegiance to God. It is true: God does not put us in those situations. We put ourselves in those situations, or members of our families put us in those situations.
One of the marvelous things about reading the Scriptures is what they make you think of. – This is a bit of an aside, but part, I think, of the whole business of how Scripture nurtures us. This passage reminds me of something I’ve seen many times in the Middle East. Travelling along the east bank of the Jordan River a few years ago – the “Jordanian State” side – a few of the pilgrims noticed that lots of the houses in the countryside seemed to be only half finished. You would see a brick or concrete structure which looked complete and polished on the ground floor, but out of the roof would stick strands of steel rebar like a half emptied spaghetti package. My fellow travelers were wondering why these various houses, which looked quite polished otherwise, had what appeared to be an unfinished construction zone on the roof. The explanation was that this is to allow the son to build an addition on the roof when he gets married. He is expected to remain under his father’s authority and simply add to the family home, build a second story, and move in. It’s an image of a form of family allegiance which takes precedence over all other allegiances.
There may be times when following and serving Christ will seem like “hatred” to those people who also wish to have a claim on our lives. Indeed, even to the point of “hating life itself”. One set of interpretations of this appeals to the ideas that : a] we get a new family in the form of fellow disciples; b] we can only fully have those other relationships when we have a relationship with Jesus; c] we cannot even fully have our own life without the presence of Jesus.
14:27 Whoever does not carry the cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.
There is a difference between being one of the crowd who likes to hang around, and being a disciple. Anyone can blend in with the “crowd” which follows him. To carry the cross is to be marked for death – this is the culmination of “hating” “even life itself”. This is what it means to be a disciple, as contrasted with simply being part of the (religious) crowd.
14:28 For which of you, intending to build a tower, does not first sit down and estimate the cost, to see whether he has enough to complete it? [29] Otherwise, when he has laid a foundation and is not able to finish, all who see it will begin to ridicule him,
[30] saying, 'This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.'
14:31 Or what king, going out to wage war against another king, will not sit down first and consider whether he is able with ten thousand to oppose the one who comes against him with twenty thousand? [32] If he cannot, then, while the other is still far away, he sends a delegation and asks for the terms of peace.
Both of these illustrations speak about the difference between intention and ability. Remember the claims of Peter in the gospel – ready to follow Jesus and die with him. Cockadoodle dooo!
There is a bit of nuance here: on the one hand Jesus wants to give us fair warning that if we truly intend to be disciples, and not just part of the crowd, we should soberly consider what that means: it means serving Him first, it means denying ourselves.
I’m not entirely sure what I’m going to do with these two illustrations. The first one appeals to our sense of self – it appears that the negative consequence is public ridicule. Well, you might get that anyway as a Christian. But more to the point – Jesus tells us to “estimate the cost” of being a disciple, and he gives the cost in those three stark terms – family, the cross, and possessions.
The second illustration, to take some poetic liberty: shall we not sue for peace with God? And of whom shall our delegation consist... Jesus...
The Book of Common Prayer (and the BAS) marriage service says that marriage is an estate which “none should undertake lightly”. It seems the same is true for discipleship.
14:33 So therefore, none of you can become my disciple if you do not give up all your possessions.
Ouch! I'll pick this up later...
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